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Getting Started

Now that you have become a member you may have questions on how the site works and how to use certain areas. The following few paragraphs will answer those questions and will teach you how to use your new account. 




  • Creating a Person of Interest (P.O.I.)

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    (Starting an Investigation)

    The first step is to open a Dossier or File (Menu: BUST A CHEATER) on the person you have decided you would like to check up on. Simply click on the “BUST A CHEATER” link at the top of the Home page or a few different places when surfing through the site. The link will take you through a step by step easy process to allow you to post all the important information that you have in order to get results in your investigation. Remember to be as accurate as you can. The more information entered, the better results achieved.





    You will need at least one photo of the person you think is keeping something from you. It will ask you to upload that image and when you have entered the last question that it asks, you are done. It’s that simple! Your P.O.I. will be automatically entered into the Global Database for the entire world to view. Remember you will always remain anonymous. That means that no one can see you searching and no one can tell who posted that P.O.I., allowing you to search without anyone ever knowing. 

    Your Investigation is now in high gear and you are able to be your own Private Detective. When someone has information about your P.O.I., you will be notified via email and may then add the individual stated in that notification as a DTC friend. Then use the DTC Private messenger to communicate and still maintain your privacy. Like any good detective it is then up to you to decide whether this particular lead is accurate and useful to your investigation of infidelity. The choice is always yours

    Make sure that you verify all the information since no one knows the Person of Interest better than you. Ask questions that would confirm the identity of the P.O.I. Remember to ask for any hard evidence including pictures, recordings, letters or writings and any other hard evidence available. You always want to be sure that you have the right person and that there is no mistaken identity.

    DidtheyCheat.com has been designed as a true online self detective agency. Malicious or unscrupulous acts directly violate your agreement with the websites Terms of Service.

  • Global Database & Search

    This is where all the information that people entered is found via “The Hot Card”. When a person fills out a P.O.I. Dossier or File it is put on a simple to read card that accompanies the photos on the site. You can search and find a Person of Interest by any of the words found in the description of that person.

    If you wanted to search for all 40 Yr old truckers from Idaho with a dragon tattoo on their arm, you could actually just search for any of those words and Presto, the photos matching those search terms will come up. You can search by over 20 different parameters, including but not limited to Name, Country, City, High School, University, or even Hair color, the choices are yours. The less you enter the wider the search. The more you enter the narrower the search results. It’s really that simple. This is where you can help others in their investigations. So go ahead and have fun searching the database. Always remember, no one knows your searching… 

    To learn more about searching the Global Database, Click Here

    DTC Groups

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    This is where you can jump in on the action and talk to others that share common opinions and questions. You simply can start a question in a group. Go to the “Activity” button in any Group Area and either hit Group Activity to start a post and get others opinions worldwide or Group Forum which lets you jump in on a conversation that others are having. Yes it is that easy…